Some days you’re up and some days you’re down and…some days you’re dead on target. I’m talking about the dreaded scale of course. Life has a funny way of getting in your face and stepping all over your goals sometimes, doesn’t it? This past weekend was a great example for me. We hit two birthday celebrations and a concert over the weekend which in turn slapped my face when I landed on the scale this morning. What’s important though is to not get discouraged.

Tati & I with Jon at Alive KISS Tribute Concert
I find that throughout the week I’m very focused and determined with my goals and then when the weekend comes around it’s like I forget about everything and get crazy with my nutrition. It’s all a learning process of course and I’m getting better day by day. I have learned from prior weekends that once I step on the scale on Monday to not get discouraged when I see it going in the wrong direction. Sure I could get upset at myself and be mad but really what is that getting me? All I’m doing is focusing on my failure and not looking forward towards the better choices I have to make. I choose to step out of that dark shadow of guilt and into the light on my way to a better me, maybe one who chooses NOT to eat all the Mexican food in sight
It’s important to live your life. What I mean by that is you can make all the right choices for yourself and try to avoid all the social environments you can, events, concerts, dinners and you will probably do great and get healthy. But, is that living by hiding out and avoiding everything? No, of course not. It’s not easy, I won’t lie I still struggle with it and I’m getting better but we can all make better choices for ourselves and still enjoy the things we love like dinner and drinks with friends. One small tip is to share a meal. My wife and I do it all the time. Most restaurants have huge portions and there’s no reason we should be eating that much, so split it up. Share a meal and limit the amount of calories you eat. I know the feeling; if it’s in front of me I will eat it. Cutting it in half ensures you will eat less!
My wife and I are still doing great with our goals though. We’re still set for our Hawaii trip in a little over a month (YIKES that’s soon) and we’re pushing real hard to get in the best shape of our lives. Though we haven’t seen huge changes physically (yet) I have to admit that both of us for the first time have made a serious choice within ourselves to put our best foot forward and give it all we got. That click has gone off in our heads and we both love the feeling we get after a great workout. Times of couch sitting have past and we are ready for our new & improved selves to come out. Will we make mistakes? Sure, I mean look at this past weekend. Sometimes we falter on proper choices and sometimes we pull through but all in all the most important thing I can stress is to stay positive and to not fall back in the same traps and patterns that led us in the wrong direction. Have you reached your breaking point yet? Heard that little voice inside you that said, “OK, enough is enough!”? If you have then welcome because that’s the first step to a healthier you and there’s no turning back now!
“Mantenha o lado da borracha para baixo”
This past week has been one of the more challenging weeks (physically) that I can remember in a while. See, my wife and I have our first ever vacation coming up in two months. So you know what that means right? Yep, we’re kicking our own asses to get in the best shape we can mentally & physically so we can look and feel our best on our trip. It’s not just any trip for us, it’s our honeymoon & 5 year anniversary all wrapped up in one. This is the trip we said we’d go on but never did. You know how it happens. The best plans falter and life gets in the way, bills come up and excuses get made. Not this time though, it’s planned and paid for and in the books!

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